Oh boy it's time to go to some event with women participating and hang on to every word a woman says while conspicuously not hitting on her
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RT @nbouscal
@seconds_0 definitely useful, but just like ordinary pornography, if it’s the only source of your ideas about how things work, you’ll be in for a rude awakening
the best way to understand women is and always will be to become friends with them and talk to them about their lives
https://twitter.com/nbouscal/status/1625893878892048385
It's super awkward and weird at first but sometimes it really does work. I made quite a few friends who are women and learned a bunch about their perspectives by just projecting "I am listening and I don't want to fuck" HARD.
Btw "hang on to her every word while projecting I don't wanna fuck" is from https://thingofthings.substack.com/p/three-difficulties-with-trying-to
