this is the very core thing with which i differ from you and everyone else in your online tribe.
to whatever extent i have been voluntarily disenfranchised, muted, put on a list, it is either directly due to disagreeableness or due to a conforming compulsion downstream of that.
i call it voluntary because i would rather be disagreeable than become lost.
in doing this, i have found answers to many of the problems that plague our society that seemingly no one is able to solve.