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im not sure how easy it is to stop people feeling pressured into mono or poly given these are like ... moral visions of what healthy relationships should look like which are completely at odds with each other
also i am now fully willing to admit that poly people are queer
[i guess i'm excluding poly people who don't feel any jealousy whatsover and mono people who are too lazy to be poly here]
like i wouldin fact feel like a terrible person for controlling who partners date/hook up with.
there's always going to be the system 1 temptation to sideeye each other and think "that can't possibly be healthy"