huhthe kids are alright?
from https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/from-swiping-to-sexting-the-enduring-gender-divide-in-american-dating-and-relationships/
seems to run counter to the 'the youths are doing all their dating through dating apps' narrative
(there was an awful lot of panic about this: e.g https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/ without people realising there are more ways to meet people online than through dating apps)
a Schelling point for those who seek one