gay peop- sorry, i mean people with gay
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RT @APStylebook
We recommend avoiding general and often dehumanizing “the” labels such as the poor, the mentally ill, the French, the disabled, the college-educated. Instead, use wording such as people with mental illnesses. And use these descriptions only when clearly relevant.
https://twitter.com/APStylebook/status/1618658301750689792
you would never say "people with frenchness"
you would say french people
because "people with frenchness" implies frenchness is bad
which is the whole problem in the first place
everything in our language has markers about how we feel about it, and trying to fully circumvent those markers will never work (nor should it!), because it feels too unnatural to adjust