how do we feel about the "gendered 3rd person pronouns vs 'they' are a T-V distinction" solution
feels like it sort of comes with its own solution to "oh shit i can't remember their pronouns" problem: well, you shouldn't be tu-ing them then
a Schelling point for those who seek one
feels like it sort of comes with its own solution to "oh shit i can't remember their pronouns" problem: well, you shouldn't be tu-ing them then