It seems like the majority of medically-recognised #Autistic traits are not autistic traits per se.
They are trauma responses common in autistic people.
I'm "more interested in things than people?" Maybe "things" don't turn hostile on me for unexplained reasons.
I'm dogmatically insistent that nobody can understand my mind but me? Maybe my entire childhood was spent resisting adults telling me they knew my mind better than I did.
This is also why "autistic traits" can seem contradictory. Both "talks about their interests all the time even in inappropriate settings" and "never talks about their interests" can be part of a diagnosis.
Because the latter is a trauma response to having the former shut down.
Is there an untraumatised autistic person?
I actually don't think so. So the map of what autism looks like to clinicians is shaped by our trauma.
And this probably compounds their impression that we're somehow defective, which in turn compounds the attitudes used to break us.
I just wanna be seen as a person.
In which I discover that geeks REALLY CARE about monospace fonts, and survey 16 free ones, and recommend 3: https://www.tbray.org/ongoing/When/202x/2023/02/09/Monospace
Sometimes I wonder if the most interesting effect of AI is that it creates a sudden impetus to measure the reliability and consistency of the human processes AI is replacing in a way that was never pushed before? #ai
wait did they really retcon <b> as the "bring attention to" element lol https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/HTML/Element/b
@timbray
I know of very few cases, anecdotally or statistically, of successful attacks that a consumer end-device firewall would have stopped. It almost always turns out to be malware, phishing, or actively exposing something insecure.
I’d be interested to hear verified counterexamples.
@mark
Marketing and adtech pay for most of the things you want security, privacy, and an actual good job done on.
Integrity and honesty were never on the table, regardless.
Fuck. I'm captured. Please view further posts with suspicion.
Warning: If you use the "advanced web interface" you don't see requests-to-follow. Even if you haven't turned on request-by-follow, your instance may have dropped many people wanting to follow in that bucket - for example, #hachyderm does for anyone from journa.host and some other instances that rang no bells with me.
Is it just a bug that I often see the Mastodon UI put a number on the notifications bell, indicating (to my mind) that there is something new, when actually clicking it doesn't show anything new at all?
I can't see that there's anything distributed or difficult to sync there, but I'm open to the idea that it's actually hard, rather than just mediocre code.
Periodic reminder (though most already know or won't hear): privacy is an illusion. There are no major communication platforms that won't ever be recorded, tapped, or covertly monitored.
The geekier among us can probably get close, but we won't bother because we know how big a hassle it is.
Fortunately, the _VAST_ majority of "private" messages are extremely low-value, and not worth the effort for a government/corporation/crook/voyeuristic-admin to deal with, EVEN if they have access.
Just this guy, you know?