Successful people writing memoirs and self-help books are basically trying to reverse-engineer their own intuition. I think this works sometimes, but ultimately, a lot of intuition is non-fungible and can't be reverse-engineered. You have to build your own.
Really the most effective way to give your intuition to someone else is in person. I think basically every other method falls deeply short, and in-person still isn't perfect. But you're upping the success rate substantially.
what's missing is the intuition, which hasn't been, and couldn't have been, shared except through two people coming together in real life