nvm i was right
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RT @empathy2000
@strangestloop consider "shoot"
"i'm shooting" can imply that you're shooting something else
"i'm shot" implies that something shot you
outgone would be a better analogy maybe, or outwent, both of which seem to me to be the opposite of outgoing
https://twitter.com/Empathy2000/status/1642950931313754112
oh okay, i guess outspoken makes sense to me now. like "speak out" not like "outgunned"
still >:(
also fwiw i think her reaction is extreme. it’s the kind of behavior that exacerbates these dissociative habits
the looking at pics of the other party is a kind of compromise between years spent looking at porn on your phone while experiencing pleasure, and also genuinely wanting to feel the connection. it’s, in a way, kind, and also unfortunate
it’s helpful for his enjoyment to be less present, not more
obviously not endorsing this, i think it’s an issue, but i haven’t seen anyone mention it or discuss it in a useful way in the replies
i think all of the people not getting why this happens don’t realize that porn behaviorally trains you to connect dissociation and sexual pleasure. like, the fact that it’s taking attention *away* from the fact of the real life presence of the person is kind of the point
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RT @thechosenberg
Smh
https://twitter.com/thechosenberg/status/1642670661142282241
truly a chaotic city
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RT @Api91Test
Pretty incredible photo of One Liberty Place and the Comcast Technology Center spire's being struck by lightning at the same time during the storm last night (photo by bruce neumann photography: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cqg_KLWM_F4/)
https://twitter.com/Api91Test/status/1642496629058985985
i think most of my coaching practice is just reconnecting people with their experience, and basically de-gaslighting them
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RT @empathy2000
@samuelmachat being honest about their work with their coworkers
being honest about their feelings with their loved ones
being honest about their desires and hopes and fears
https://twitter.com/Empathy2000/status/1642593661362872323
search “water” in your camera roll and quote with the best pic
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RT @_metallurgist
search “water” in your camera roll and quote with the best pic https://twitter.com/infinitsummer/status/1642311834563747841 https://t.co/1KzpCz9jMz
https://twitter.com/_metallurgist/status/1642629282752258048
i'm so used to misinterpreting other people's ideas that i just assumed my reading of this one was wrong, and it inspired my original tweet
turns out it was exactly what i had hoped it was!
oh it's this
fuck yeah
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RT @jose_goncalves_
Really like this pricing model
Free for doers https://twitter.com/jason/status/1642600809669218310
https://twitter.com/jose_goncalves_/status/1642603938141597697
corporate schell