when you are annoyed with arguments that boil down to "its just subjective maaan" its because intellectually you have no defense for it but still need an excuse to impose on other people the value distinctions you spent all this time working on but can't say that out loud
its like me in middle school absolutely *fuming* that there are people who listen to justin bieber and *like* it and it was completely valid for them to do so and actually i was the lame dork all along