whoever tells me about any kind of trauma they have, i will always believe you completely completely completely
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RT @deepfates
When did "trauma" go from meaning "grievous harm to my physical body" to "something that made me feel bad"?
Is there some kind of great drug you can get with a PTSD diagnosis
https://twitter.com/deepfates/status/1401940594004463621
the least you can do for anyone to respect their dignity is believe every single thing they say
whoever tells me about any kind of trauma they have i will try my best to treat you like a person who has trauma
i don't think believing people means you have to "accomodate" them or "become doormats" -- you just have to give them *exactly* what they want, this does not have to come at a cost to yourself
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RT @eigenrobot
"all trauma is fake and dumb" is not true although i respect people who dont want to pay accommodation costs
"believe all people claiming trauma and accommodate them maximally" is turning yourself into a doormat and enabling so…
https://twitter.com/eigenrobot/status/1402037020482957316
just give people exactly what they want or go away, it's so easy
i think behaving as if everyone is always telling the truth looks exactly like behaving as if everyone is always lying
naivety isnt trust, that's just cluelessness
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RT @amirism_
love is allowing others to destroy themselves
https://twitter.com/amirism_/status/1399697862678646785
people say so many things just listen instead of talking over them in ur head