...no, not really, to the first; and because I'm really *not*, to the second.
Mostly for the reasons mentioned back on July 11, here - https://schelling.pt/@cerebrate/110697503750936981 - which makes them very difficult for me to write and even harder to read.
(It also doesn't help that I'm ace-though-not-aro, which makes some areas of human behavior harder for me to interpret than the tentacle-dances of the methane-breathing brain slugs of Balahara IIIa.)