men really be trying to play by women's rules and get upset that it doesn't work for them and that they're not taken seriously
you're not a woman, you're a dudeif you compare yourself to women you're asking to get treated like one (not taken seriously)
you can't have both
yes this is a subtweet, no this is not an invalidation of trans women, yes I'm being less than maximally kind, no I will not stop, yes this is lightly misogynistic, no I do not actually disrespect all women
that should just about cover it I think
a Schelling point for those who seek one