nah y'all lazy and dont want to do the boring stuff. its really just that simple. don't try to make us feel sorry for your pretend problems
look, we all feel this TO SOME EXTENT. but even those of us with the SAME problems of you learn to grow up and manage this because u gotta
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what people don't seem to understand about ADHD is that certain things aren't just 'boring' for us - they can be borderline painful. the mental eff…
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ultimately all that matters is doing it; ANYTHING else is just excuses. this is not a particularly popular perspective here in the degenerate West, and I'm pretty grateful to have been raised in a culture which doesn't tolerate this kind of idiocy (post-Soviet)
its all excuses
you lazy-ass kids (even the over-30s, if you talk like this you're a child) want to be pat-patted on the head and be told that its OKAY that you're so dysfunctional you havent showered in 3 days and have only eaten cookies for the last 5 meals
its not ok. you're broken. fix it.
i always get these same objections: i dont understand, you cant fix ADHD, this is out of their control, its problematic and patriarchical to blame people for their neurology, etc etc
this is pussy shit my guy
i've been there & worse. i'm no stranger to this. but i did it and so can you. i'm not so special that i can do something the rest of you cant. i'm just more willful.
i just cant respect someone that makes excuses for why its ok to be a human trash fire, without working on it
that being said if you have the same problems but DONT make excuses for them, fully own your shit, acknowledge you're doing bad and are actively working on it and able to show how, i'll support you endlessly and help in any way i can
but if you're wallowing, fuck you, sucks
its harder for you to focus? sucks! work harder than the other guy to learn how to do it. the extra effort will make you a better person.
you get easily overwhelmed and melt down? sucks! learn how to manage your emotions and arousal level such that you melt down less often.