quite ironically this is precisely what my name means

he who observes the control system

but like, subtly, so as not to make it weird
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RT @pee_zombie
@mechanical_monk I've iterated thru basically every single possibility and arrived at "just watch closely and see if she moved subtly towards you, and valence match if so, otherwise no touchy", so like, what normal people do intuitively
https://twitter.com/pee_zombie/status/1407084365147000836