@lydia which of the five most populous cities in the country do you live in?
(Or is it sf instead?)
@lydia Getting catcalled generally requires you to be walking in a densely populated area, which means a city. But smaller cities are usually driver-focused, so you must be in a megacity.
The only city I know of that's not huge but still has a lot of walking is San Fransisco, so it could be that instead.
(Leaving aside the class and race issues.)
@WomanCorn I live in a city big enough to bring your mom out on a nice date