fr tho doesn't the "i contain multitudes and will contradict myself when i feel like it" thing have a sociopathic vibe to it
can you be just a person that goes "i will do what i want whenever i feel like it and also fuck you"
i guess what im asking is, why is it that being inconsistent feels like "cheating"
is it because there's an expectation for ppl to be "responsible for themselves" in the sense of making promises wrt what they are going to do and who they are going to be
is it implied that everyone in society has made some sort of such a promise to some extent