the reason twitter is *not* a dating website despite what some would claim is because it doesnt perform the core service a dating site does: providing the shared context/ informational symmetry that everyone is looking for a date
there are good reasons for those rules which are obvious to some but not others & we will not get into them
in any case people who are able to comfortably navigate these things become winners in both games, online & offline
"twitter is a dating site" says person for whom the entirety of life is workable as a dating site
so maybe giving better tools/"solutions" to everyone can actually have the opposite of an equalizing/democratizing effect, despite intentions to accomplish otherwise
this ^ specifically is a response to @darpyu
from what i can tell this is maybe the biggest hurdle in dating for many because the rules are that you are not allowed to explicitly communicate certain intentions without the appropriate context