a big part of this is how disconnected from the culture I felt growing up as an immigrant. took a while to learn English, mom never let me eat the popular junk foods, I was the kid who brought weird lunch, dressed differently from the others, was awkward & autistic as hell, etc
so I think part of why I love reminiscing about 90s American kid culture is that it helps me find & focus on those shared threads, as trite as they themselves may be. helps me feel "included", retroactively.