much of love is basically indistinguishable for aesthetic yearning; for the persons beauty, for the person you think you could be with them, for potential, but likely inaccessible, futures

love requires some amount of pain; something which is entirely positive is likely not it
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RT @default_friend
Have you ever realized you’re in love with someone after some period of time or is it always a conscious thing?
https://twitter.com/default_friend/status/1395905888519557122