bullying is kindness as it disincentivizes cringe and changes your constraint set such that you're motivated thru suffering to shift your behaviors
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RT @chaosprime
when you run loser software, it makes me want to smack you around, and it isn't because i want to hurt you or for you to feel bad, it's because i love you and i want to make you stop doing loser shit and do non-loser shit instead

something something grandmotherly kindness
https://twitter.com/chaosprime/status/1471918400452579342