epistemic alignment, not object-level belief or even axiomatic or values alignment, is the strongest indicator of long-term interpersonal compatibility

"how you go about disagreeing" makes all the difference, showing up at the root of so many different types of conflicts
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RT @yashkaf
The point of Aella's thread is that bad epistemology and lack of curiosity impact the potential for deep relationships since relationships depend on being…
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