I've yet to hear a perfect solution to wanting to family and children's surnames when you get married
- wife changes here: loses identity
- wife keeps hers: not same unit as children
- hyphenate: see qt
- new surname: both lose their identity!
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RT @NLRG_it
my most controversial parenting take is that if you give your child both your last names hyphenated you should have your kid taken away
https://twitter.com/NLRG_it/status/1652146537315565569