everything good in life was made by crazy people with no respect for societal norms
to the extent that you want nice things, you have to let people flagrantly violate social norms
this includes the ones you hold most sacred
this includes the ones that protect those who you care about
this includes the ones that keep society functioning
a Schelling point for those who seek one
this includes the ones you hold most sacred
this includes the ones that protect those who you care about
this includes the ones that keep society functioning