has anyone figured out a way to talk about doing things in a way that doesn't feel overly rewarding and remove the incentives of actually doing those things?
@empathy2000 you figure out what it is you actually want; if it's social validation, you decide to be okay with explicitly going for that instead of getting it thru proxies. if smth else, no amount of social validation will fit that need
how do i tweet about my gym plan without getting enough positive feedback that i no longer desire to go to the gym