has anyone figured out a way to talk about doing things in a way that doesn't feel overly rewarding and remove the incentives of actually doing those things?
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how do i tweet about my gym plan without getting enough positive feedback that i no longer desire to go to the gym
@empathy2000 you figure out what it is you actually want; if it's social validation, you decide to be okay with explicitly going for that instead of getting it thru proxies. if smth else, no amount of social validation will fit that need