feels like a lot of people dont know how to deal with multiple things being bad at the same time
"how dare you worry about <bad thing> when <worse thing> is happening" is always an option, especially since what counts as worse varies by person
this might actually just be strategic, people trying to shut down conversations about problems that benefit them
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@urshanabi It's definitely cold-hearted strategy sometimes (often when used against feminism, for some reason), but most of the time it feels like a form of oneupsmanship ("You think your day was bad?! Well I...") caused by an identification of our pet issues with our own personal issues
