I will use [this post](https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/ZDZmopKquzHYPRNxq/selection-vs-control) to argue that the concept of "partner of your dreams" is harmful
@niplav link for those whose clients don't render markdown properly https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/ZDZmopKquzHYPRNxq/selection-vs-control
a Schelling point for those who seek one
@niplav link for those whose clients don't render markdown properly https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/ZDZmopKquzHYPRNxq/selection-vs-control