I operate by Crocker's rules[1].
[1]: https://www.lesswrong.com/tag/crockers-rules
Causal deductive DAG
@niplav Mistakes are where you learn. Successes are where you celebrate.
I'm learning so much more on botched dates than smooth ones
Ugh again
Lel
I may be overescalating
... And I notice I have no idea how to escalate on a first date so a second date is in the cards bc it's either been first date - > my place or chodery or losing her after first date so far
"making sure you got this" is death because it displays that I *need* her answer
I approach a blonde, she says she's in a hurry to meet her friend
Gives me her number (checked, it's real)
See her 5 minutes later with a guy and flowers in her arm
> women
a Schelling point for those who seek one