niplav boosted

@niplav Mistakes are where you learn. Successes are where you celebrate.

I'm learning so much more on botched dates than smooth ones

... And I notice I have no idea how to escalate on a first date so a second date is in the cards bc it's either been first date - > my place or chodery or losing her after first date so far

"making sure you got this" is death because it displays that I *need* her answer

I approach a blonde, she says she's in a hurry to meet her friend

Gives me her number (checked, it's real)

See her 5 minutes later with a guy and flowers in her arm

> women

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