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sometimes when people say "can we normalize X" what they really mean is "I feel insecure choosing X for myself unless everyone else does so too"
but like, that's your problem, not everyone else's
sometimes when people say "can we normalize X" what they really mean is "I feel insecure choosing X for myself unless everyone else does so too"
but like, that's your problem, not everyone else's
@pareinoia i think it's usually "i am proudly choosing X and angry that others aren't as well" or maybe some combo of both of those things