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sometimes when people say "can we normalize X" what they really mean is "I feel insecure choosing X for myself unless everyone else does so too"

but like, that's your problem, not everyone else's

@pareinoia i think it's usually "i am proudly choosing X and angry that others aren't as well" or maybe some combo of both of those things

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