alright guys ive figured out the method for not being stressed
its easy you just say 'im not stressed' whenever anyone, including you, asks if youre stressed
this advanced method is stolen from @natural_hazard https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/qmXqHKpgRfg83Nif9/how-to-ignore-your-emotions-while-also-thinking-you-re
this is a fully general method for not feeling any emotion you dont like