most people actually get along just fine. but sometimes you see this dynamic when the contrast is especially large between two people or groups
like how postrat twitter reacts to normie techies, or people in my (business) school react to the humanities activist types
so to get to the bottom of this, the other day i was listening to eigen's podcast episode with visa and it struck me that i'd put them as representatives of these totally opposite archetypes in my mind, and it was oddly satisfying to hear them just get along with each other