why am I drawn to dudes who I want to (or sense that I will eventually want to) punch in the face
it's like. are you at least moderately attractive? do you have absolutely garbage opinions? take me now
and I can sense it. before I even hear their opinions. I'm like yeah this guy's gonna open his mouth and say something that makes my soul die a little inside. and he is of at least average levels of attractiveness. therefore I want him
2) depravity — he probably doesn't Respect Women©®™ much, so probably more down to do disrespectful things to me in bed, AND probably more likely to actually get off on them rather than doing them just for my sake (big meh). & probably into weird shit, which makes me feel better
3) there's honestly just SUCH an enjoyable energy & tension from mutually choosing to get along w/ someone when you both hate the other's opinions. when you both think the other has dogshit takes but love their company. idk how to explain it. also hatefucking is just so much FUN
so this was mostly a rhetorical question / shitpoast but I've got Theories
1) shared culture — it's not just any dude with opinions I consider trash, it's specifically the terminally online ones. aka he was probably a /b/tard like me growing up, and we speak the same language.